What happens when you stop pretending and start showing up as the true badass you are? That’s the secret we’re revealing today – because when you let go of fear and step into your power, everything shifts.

So, buckle up. This is the no-holds-barred story you’ve been waiting for.

In this episode of Spill the Tea, we share:

🍵 How To Embody Who the Fu*k You Want to Be:

It’s not about becoming someone new—it’s about stepping into the badass version of yourself you’ve always been deep down. We talk about how letting go of fear, judgment, and the limiting beliefs you’ve been carrying allows your confidence and authenticity to shine through. Growth starts with awareness, taking accountability for your life, and showing up consistently to do the work. Manifestation? It’s happening 24/7—whether you’re focusing on the good or the bad. What you think about, you attract.

🍵 From Nine People in the Kitchen to Selling Out Venues:

Okay, so here’s the real talk: we started this wild journey with just nine people sitting on our kitchen floor. Nine. And it wasn’t even planned – we were just following Beau’s vision. Fast forward, and we’re here on our SIXTH tour. Crazy, right? But let’s rewind to how it all started because the hustle was real.

🍵 Vulnerability and Growth Through Breathwork:

Breathwork wasn’t just something we learned; it became the foundation of everything we do. We started with a simple mission: to share the transformative power of this practice freely and unapologetically. It’s not about holding onto the methods – it’s about empowering others to use them and create their own impact. Growth doesn’t have to take years if you’re willing to step out of your comfort zone. For us, it’s always been about creating safety and connection, breaking barriers, and inspiring others to show up as their most authentic selves. That’s where transformation begins.

🍵 Our First Tour and How It All Went Downhill:

The Gold Coast event had us feeling on top of the world, but things took a sudden turn. Beau, the most confident he’d ever been after feeling proud of what he’d created, was hit with a wave of negativity. After finishing the event, he felt accomplished—his hard work had paid off, and the impact was real. But soon after, social media backlash came in full force. The very same people he’d looked up to and thought would support him turned on him. This wasn’t just a bump in the road; it felt like everything Beau had worked for was being taken away in a brutal, public way. In a space that should’ve been about healing and positivity, instead, it was full of judgment and projection.

🍵 Be Your Authentic Self:

We both went through a phase of trying to be someone we weren’t. We used to think we had to be all serious and professional—dressing a certain way, acting a certain way—because that’s what we thought we needed to fit in or attract the right people. But all it did was drain us, make us feel disconnected, and leave us constantly anxious. It all changed when we stopped pretending. We started being real—cursing, having fun, embracing who we truly are. That’s when everything clicked. And that’s the key: stop pretending to be someone you’re not. Stop following someone else’s path. Be your authentic self, and watch how the right people come to you.

🍵 Why We Are Not Healers:

We are not healers, and neither are you. You are your own healer. It’s empowering to realize that we’re not here to do the work for you—we’re here to guide you. You have everything you need inside of you. Calling yourself a healer and making people depend on you is egotistical. Our job is to give you the tools, the knowledge, and the accountability to take action and heal yourself. You don’t need anyone else. We’re not better or further along than you—we’ve just done the work. If you don’t take responsibility and put in the effort, we can’t do it for you. It’s like teaching math: we give you the tools, but you have to solve the problem. When you do, you’ll be able to teach others too.

🍵 All the Mistakes We Made on Our Last Tour:

Reflecting on our last tour, it feels like every possible thing that could go wrong, did. But that’s the nature of live events—no matter how prepared you are, something always finds a way to throw a wrench in the works. And this tour? Well, we had more than our fair share of hiccups. But at the end of the day, what matters is how you bounce back. You show up, you make it happen, and you learn from the mistakes. So yes, we had our fair share of mess-ups on this tour, but by the end of it, we were still standing – and we couldn’t be prouder of how we handled it all

🍵 What We Have Planned Next:

As we step into this next phase of our journey, we’re embracing a shift that has been on our hearts for a while. We’re moving away from breakthrough breathwork. We know this news might be a tough pill for some, but it’s time for others to step in and take the reins. Our goal now is to focus on developing better leaders, coaches, and facilitators. We want to build confidence, help people thrive in business, and guide you to become the kind of leader who shines in any room.

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Your Turn:

Have you ever felt like you were on the verge of making a huge change, but the fear was holding you back? What’s one thing you’ve done that pushed you to step into your authentic self, no matter how scary it seemed?

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